Be Proactive.
How can I be Proactive ?
In order to seek out and be proactive, you must be able to take responsibly for your own actions. You cannot be blaming every little thing on the first person that happens to pass by. In order to be proactive, there are many ways to be proactive. Always listen to your own language. You can always tell the difference between a reactive response and a proactive response.
Reactive vs. Proactive
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Being reactive causes a person to become dreadful and mad about every little thing. They never are able to think before they act, therefore they do things they will end up regretting. When we react, we tend to create problems for ourselves and for others. When we respond, we try to get rid of the problem or stop it from occurring in the first place. We all must be aware that we can stop a problem before they circumnavigate the world. What we don't understand is why we should stop it from happening. We are the problem; we should be able to keep it from happening. |
In reality, we all tend to think in more of reactive terms; it is easier for us to act reactive. To be proactive, we have to work on it. We all surrender ourselves to reactivity just by falling into our habits of speaking out when it is not needed. (yelling out something innapropriate, bagging on someone behind their back, etc) We should all reach for proactive behavior. The more proactive we are, the more choice we experience in our life. We cannot take control of every single thing in our life, but we can choose weather to act upon it in a tremendous mood or just go with it. We all can reach proactive behavior if we understand all the small things nobody really notices. |
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Let's be proactive.
How can we make a significant change if we sit back and think that it will come to us? We need to be proactive in order to shift the paradigms of ourselves and those around us. We need to realize we are the ones with the ultimate control.